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Pointing Others to Christ

By Growing to Be Like Him

Through His Word

As a Family

Our vision: Pointing Others to Christ by growing to be like him through his word as a family. That looks like...


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Pointing Others to Christ

We exist to display and point others to the supreme greatness of God revealed in Jesus. (Psalm 85:9; Matt. 5:16; 1 Cor. 6:19-20; 1 Peter 2:9) 

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By Growing to be like Him

We accomplish this task by dying daily to our sinful ways and growing daily to think, love, and work like Jesus more and more. (2 Cor. 3:18; Ephesians 4:15; Heb. 6:1-2; 1 Peter 2:2; 2 Peter 3:18)

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Through His Word

This growth happens as we submit to the Holy Spirit's application of the Bible to our lives. (Acts 20:32; 2 Tim. 3:15-17; Heb. 4:12)

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As a family

This reliance on the Word of God occurs in the context of a faith family, in which the more mature "parent" disciples the newer believers until they can do the same. (John 17:21; Col. 1:28; 1 Tim. 2:2; Heb. 13:1; 1 John 1:3)

Articles for Godly Living


A resource of different articles written by our staff as they apply scripture truths.

By Dr. James Boyd December 5, 2022
In the midst of life's struggles, it is all too easy to turn one's focus to one's own pain and to forget the ultimate purpose of life. As such, following Paul's discussion of the human weakness that God desires to use to reveal His extraordinary power, he takes the opportunity in 2 Cor. 4:15 to remind the Corinthians of the goal of every believer, which is particularly significant for Christian parents. 15 Indeed, everything is for your benefit, so that grace, extended through more and more people, may cause thanksgiving to increase to God’s glory. 2 Corinthians 4:15 (HCSB) The first thing Paul says is that "all this is for you." The phrase "all this" likely refers back to verses7-11 in which Paul shares how his own weakness is the stuff through which God reveals His power and life. This is why Paul's suffering is "for their benefit." How did Paul’s spiritual children benefit? Paul endured by the power and life of God which "extended grace" to more and more people, that is, to many of the Corinthians. When parents go through struggles with their teens, it ought to be viewed as an opportunity to show the power and life of God so that God's grace will be "extended" to many others. The spread of grace to those around produces the fruit of thankfulness. Not just a little thankfulness, but an overflowing abundance of thankfulness. So God gives the "knowledge of God's glory in the face of Jesus Christ (4:6)" to frail humans in order to reveal his power and life so that His grace will spread, producing thanksgiving. Parents, then, must work to spread God's grace to the many in their families. What does this look like? When parents struggle with their teens, the teens must see how parents respond graciously. Parents must discipline as God would discipline. The initial goal, then, is to enable the teen to be at peace with God, to know God's favor which leads to a thankful heart, which is often absent during the teenage years. Yet, the spread of grace unto thanksgiving is still not the ultimate goal. Paul's final phrase "to the glory of God" is the key. Every act of parenting, every struggle, and every conflict ought to be an opportunity for God to reveal his power and life through the parent to the teen so that God's grace will be extended to the teen, producing a thankful heart, and this is not for the goal of peace in the family, but for the glory of God. Familial peace is a fruit. The declaration of the greatness of God is the goal. How successfully do you allow God to use your weakness to show his power and life? How does your parenting spread God's grace to your teen? Is God made to look as great as He is by your teens thankfulness for God's grace?
By Dr. James Boyd November 28, 2022
If teens get their values from parents, and the knowledge of God and His greatness is THE treasure, and if it is the natural frailty of human parents that provides the opportunity for God's great power to be shown, what does this all look like? 2 Cor. 4:7-11 provides the four life-situations that provide the "teachable moments" through which the importance of knowing God's greatness can be clearly communicated. The first is when parents are "pressured in every way" but remain free to live for Christ in every choice. The second is when parents have no clue what to do, but still do not despair. The third is when parents are "persecuted" but live on knowing God will never leave them. 7 Now we have this treasure in clay jars, so that this extraordinary power may be from God and not from us. 8 We are pressured in every way but not crushed; we are perplexed but not in despair; 9 we are persecuted but not abandoned; we are struck down but not destroyed. 10 We always carry the death of Jesus in our body, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who live are always given over to death because of Jesus, so that Jesus’ life may also be revealed in our mortal flesh. 2 Corinthians 4:7-11 (HCSB) The fourth situation in which the extraordinary power of God can be seen in the parents' lives is when the parents are cast down, knocked down, or hurt badly. The same Greek word refers to the people of Capernaum being "cast down" to Hades in Matt. 11:23 and to Satan being "cast out" of the presence of God in Rev. 12:10. How are parents cast down or cast out? As aliens in this world, believing parents will experience rejection. Whether physical, social, or emotional, it will certainly be painful. When excluded, shunned, or rejected by others, parents can model how to live in God's strength by their conviction that destruction is not something that the world can impose on the believer. The Bible is clear when it says that believers need not fear man who can kill the body, but rather should fear God who can destroy both body and soul (Matt. 10:28). Parents can endure by the power of God when they are rejected and hurt by others because they know that whatever man does to them, man cannot destroy them. The believing parent can exhibit faith in the power of God by living out the psalmist's affirmation of Ps. 118:6 "The Lord is for me, I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?" This world can cause intense pain. But this world has no power to destroy the believing parent because of the power of God. Paul reiterates this truth in 2 Cor. 4:10 when he says that it is by carrying the death of Christ in the body that we reveal the life of Christ. Do your teens see the powerful life of God in your body when you suffer, or does your suffering cause your teens to see God as a little, powerless Deity?
By Dr. James Boyd November 21, 2022
If teens learn their values from parents, and the knowledge of God and His greatness is THE treasure, and if it is the natural frailty of human parents that provides the opportunity for God's great power to be shown, what does this all look like? 2 Cor. 4:7-11 provides the four life-situations that provide the "teachable moments" through which the importance of knowing God's greatness can be clearly communicated. The first teachable opportunity (v. 8) is when parents are "pressured in every way" but remain free to live for Christ in every choice. The second (v. 8) is when parents have no clue what to do, but still do not despair. 7 Now we have this treasure in clay jars, so that this extraordinary power may be from God and not from us. 8 We are pressured in every way but not crushed; we are perplexed but not in despair; 9 we are persecuted but not abandoned; we are struck down but not destroyed. 10 We always carry the death of Jesus in our body, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who live are always given over to death because of Jesus, so that Jesus’ life may also be revealed in our mortal flesh. 2 Corinthians 4:7-11 (HCSB) The third situation (v. 9) is one in which parents are "persecuted." The Greek word here describes being "pursued in order to be oppressed or harassed." Paul uses this very word in Philippians 3:6 to describe his pre-conversion assault on the Church in which he sought out Christians and killed them. How are parents "persecuted" and how does this verse teach parents to train up their children as God would train them? There may be times when a parent's faith is attacked by a teen, teacher, principal, parent, co-worker, or church member. The attack may be directed toward the parent's character, a particular decision, method of parenting, or moral position. Regardless of the details, there will be times when the parent is attacked for doing what he or she believes to be the biblical, Christ-like, God-glorifying thing to do. When attacked, the immediate response is to become defensive, to justify the alleged offence, or to distance the accuser. Paul, however, gives some good news about what parents can do when attacked, and how they can use this life-situation for the glory of God and the good of their teen. Paul says when being attacked, we are not "abandoned." This word "abandoned" is the same word Jesus used on the cross when he cried out "My God, My God, why have you FORSAKEN me?" The promise we have is that we can be satisfied in the midst of an attack against us because God will never "leave" us or "forsake" us, especially when attacked (Hebrews 13:5). Those who are persecuted for doing what is right are actually blessed (Matt. 5:10). How can this be? Their hope and focus is on the fullness of salvation when there will be no more false or misdirected accusations. Every justified accusation against us is absorbed by Christ in His death. The God whose kingdom is permanent is present in the midst of every unjustified accusation. So be transparent with your teens when under attack for doing what is right. Let them learn your dependence on the sufficient work and presence of Christ. Christ was abandoned in your place so that you would never have to endure the accusations without the Advocate, Jesus Christ. Allow your teen to see your weakness so they will learn the sufficiency of God's extraordinary power.
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